I've been very lucky to have been able to have kink as a part of my life for most of my adult life. My journey of discovery through BDSM started on the submissive side of the fence, and has since extended to playing the Dominant role - however I do not consider myself a switch and recognise that submission is my default. That's honestly not a preference, that's just who I am. I'm told I don't do too bad a job of pretending to be Dominant though, but I'll admit that it's never felt as comfortable as when I'm truly being myself (and why would it, really?)

I also have a passion for ANR, and was actually introduced to this by a wonderfully nurturing woman who was the D to my s for a while and with whom I was engaged in a FLR. ANR does not necessarily need to happen in a sexual context for me, but if that's where you'd like to go with it then I'm perfectly OK with that too. I am very much attracted to that special kind of vulnerability, connection, intimacy, and sense of wellbeing that ANR brings.

I'm also bisexual, which I was relieved to finally admit to myself and then the rest of you some time around my 45th birthday. I've found that I tend to lean more towards MMF rather than MM encounters - but that's not for any particular reason other than 3 feels like a bit more of a party and I have an exhibitionist streak. LOVE getting out to a couple's club and putting on a bit of a show, or whenever the rare opportunity arises to frolic in the fresh air - especially if a boat may be involved.

If I've somehow managed to stand out from the crowd to you and piqued your interest, I'd love to hear from you!